How to approach girl.
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| How to approach girl. |
When that being in my distant youth, school, I often come across beautiful girls and did not know how to approach them. They seemed to me something elusive and, looking at the crowd surrounding the fan, I gave up and told myself that I had no chance of a girl, but I'm actually stupidly afraid of them.
In those years when we have only begun to emerge opinion about women's access, on the way there are many problems and failures for a long time put us down and leave a feeling of deep resentment in his soul. Unfortunately, these problems did not pass me by since childhood I have been hearing and I not only did not know what to say to girls but also strongly lose when you do not hear what they say. But I do not give up: Meet, talk, trying to objectively look at the events taking place with me and make conclusions from them. And these conclusions I will share with you today in this article.
So, you liked the girl, and you would like it muddy. How to approach girl it all begin?
And it all starts with dating. The first impression about a person, especially if it was a strong, vibrant and unpredictable for a long time remains in the woman's memory and sometimes substantially covers your weaknesses in the future. Speaking of accessible language, when we first met in her head was deposited a certain image (if the impression was strong, then they even embellishes it) and at the sight of you, he immediately pops up, forcing the call to you or that feeling. So to the girl left a good impression of you should remember the 3 rules:
I) Introduction should be fun and original.
II) Do not miss an opportune moment to move closer and touch her.
III) Be yourself.
By following these three rules your acquaintance will be held to cheer. Let us consider in detail each of the items.
Dating should be fun.
Usually, the beautiful girls approach several times a day with this brilliant statement: "- Girl, and it is possible to meet you?". And you have no idea how they got sick of it. Approaching a girl with such a question, you'll likely hear: "- No", so you need to include fantasy and come up with something on the original.
For example:
"Girl you have such lovely eyes when I saw you, I almost slipped. And generally when I see you - always falling. " And show her his soiled hands. Further, the laughter on her part. Then continue the dialogue: "I decided to walk here and ...". That's all in the bag.
Or here's another example:
We take a completely different map of the city, come to the girl and asks: "How do I get out such and such," and shows her the card. After a long search, it turns out that the card does not this city (not that he took from the seller) and you're on it already half of the city bypass. And politely ask to hold the desired street. During the communication and spend more. The main thing that dating was fun and memorable.
Do not miss opportunity.
Remember if you see a place for you time acquaintance, immediately without delay to her. The second such moment can not be. Otherwise, then perhaps you did not overwhelm yourself and just look at her afraid to approach, and also with other girls. Girls consider it a weakness, but we men need to be strong. On the other hand, if you do not pull the rubber and not chew snot, but with determination and confidence are acting, trying to seduce the girl quickly - this in itself raises some interest in girls, they feel about you mate.
Be yourself.
Everything is simple. When communicating with a girl does not have to build from a edakogo tough guy, without being actually so, or arrogate to itself the qualities and character traits that you do not. As it is not necessary to build out a romantic guy, if you is not.
Sooner or later, and probably sooner, even immediately - it will be revealed, and invade deep disappointment. Of course, you can embellish a little his biography, his exploits, all sorts of stories out there - but in moderation. Be yourself is very important to pick up artist. Behave naturally, speak confidently, tell funny stories, and she will hit your party.
Well, that's all I wanted you to hear. The main fear not - the most difficult thing is to make the first step towards difficulties. As the famous saying: "The road by walking". Successful you are dating!
