Afraid of failure.
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| Afraid of failure. |
Recently, I began to understand what people fear most. People most in life is afraid of failure. Denial is like something unreal what people are afraid of failure. After all, for fear of rejection get people hinders their development and enslaves himself with his own hands. Why is this happening? The whole point is that people do not have enough experience in various areas, and moments of life. For example we can take an elementary acquaintance with the girl.
Give me 10 people, and we'll see how many of them will be real, forgetting about all the complexes and their problems to get acquainted with the girl. I'm afraid of failure of that dozens would be only a couple of people. Or worse, no one. Why? They are afraid to be refused. Refusal to them as a stab in the back. Think of it as a question, if a person was rejected by a girl. Why she refused me? What is wrong with me? I have the nose of the curve? People will look for flaws in himself. But in fact the reason for this failure can be far from you. All business can be a girl. She has a bad day, she was a fool, just do not have the mood.
What you lose going up to her? Nothing! And she lost you and excellent opportunity to socialize and spend time. Perhaps after a couple of hours, she realizes that made the most stupid mistake in my life, rebuffing you. You would no longer be important, at this time you will develop and move on. So to think a normal person, but we are all different. The average person scores his brain is unnecessary debris, in the end it all this develops an inferiority complex.
Fear of a failure - a consequence of low self-esteem - because one is afraid to dip into his eyes even further and feel even worse.
If you want to change themselves and their relationship to the world, you should think about your worldview. Learn to accept failure as an excuse for self-improvement.
To improve their self-esteem - we must act, such approaches do, do things - so the fear of failure should be ignored - and then made the case even if there was a failure - a person feels better - because he resolved, overcame his fear. Fear of failure is to act, but not after.
Denial is a great chance to change yourself, make yourself better, to make his perception of the world more realistic - in fact if not working as well, so should be done differently. Look for in the refusal of the positive moments and parties. Never take rejection personally. In our lives, often still decides the case, just as failure. Always go forward with her head, and do not turn around and forget about failures.
